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The Wedding Order Of Events Guide

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You hear bells ringing, see flowers blooming, and the aroma of delicious food fills the air. A wedding is a special occasion that marks the beginning of a couple’s life together. For financés planning on having a luxurious wedding, there is much to consider and plan to make it perfect.

Understanding the order of events is part of creating a memorable and stress-free wedding. Today, we’ll discuss the order of events for a luxury wedding so you can feel confident in planning and executing your dream day.

You can split your dream day into two main parts – the ceremony and the reception. The wedding ceremony is typically a very solemn occasion that marks the union of two people. While different cultures, religions, and families may have their own unique rituals, here are some of the common components you can expect:

The Processional

Among the most iconic parts of the ceremony is when the bride walks down the aisle. It’s part of the processional, essentially the ceremony’s entrance.

Here, you’ll have yourself and your parents or other family members walking down the aisle, followed by your bridesmaids and groomsmen. Lastly, the bride walks last with her father or another close family member.

“As she approaches her spouse-to-be, guests will stand and watch as she makes her grand entrance. The walk is usually accompanied by music or a piece of literature read aloud.”

Wedding ceremony with bride and parents walking up the aisle.

Make sure to decorate your aisle with fresh flowers, petals, and an altar or backdrop for a stunning effect.

Welcoming Words

“Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to join two hearts in marriage.”

This phrase is a common way to kick off the ceremony. The officiant or celebrant will welcome everyone before going into more detail about the significance of marriage and love.

Readings

At this point, the ceremony may include readings from sacred texts or favorite pieces of literature.

“This part of the ceremony is usually very moving as the officiant, friends, or family members read meaningful words aloud.”

In a religious ceremony, the readings will be from traditional holy texts. In a civil ceremony that includes elements from different faiths, the texts can be chosen by the couple and are often pieces of literature, poetry, or prose.

The wedding ceremony

Words From The Officiant

After the readings, the officiant will begin marrying the couple. The officiant will give some words of wisdom about marriage and love, including the sanctity of the union. For instance, Christian weddings might explain the meaning of marriage and what it means to be a faithful partner.

“The officiant may also explain why the couple is making this commitment, how they will honor each other in their marriage, and the importance of their vows.”

Master of wedding ceremony speech

Exchange Vows

At last, the spotlight is on the couple. Here is when you will exchange your wedding vows, which the bride and groom-to-be usually write. You may also opt for traditional vows from your faith or culture.

Wedding vows being exchanged

Vows can be as long or as short as you’d like. They should be romantic, sincere, and thoughtful.

“The couple gets to express their love for each other in words and promises that they plan to keep forever.”

Exchange Rings

Toward the end of the ceremony, rings are exchanged between the couple. The rings are a symbol of everlasting love and commitment. A ring bearer, usually a small child, will walk down the aisle with a beautiful pillow holding both rings. The groom will place the bride’s ring on her finger, and she’ll do the same for him.

Ring exchange at a wedding

Exchange A Kiss

The most famous part of the ceremony is one of the most anticipated ones – the newlyweds are declared husband and wife, and they share a kiss! It usually happens just after the officiant announces them as a married couple.

Wedding ceremony kiss

The Unity Symbol

“Binding your lives together with some sort of symbolic gesture is a beautiful way to signify the start of your life as one.”

Couples may opt for a unity symbol, such as lighting a candle together for an extra sweet touch. Other examples include planting a tree or pouring sand into one container.

Wedding sand ceremony

The Recessional

Finally, the recessional is when you and your partner will walk back down the aisle as husband and wife. Contrary to the processional, the recessional will accompany upbeat and celebratory music.

“At luxury weddings, it’s not uncommon for guests to be showered with rice or flower petals as they make their way out of the ceremony.”

Wedding confetti

Wedding Reception

After the ceremony, guests will be invited to a lavish wedding reception. A luxury reception is usually a grand affair that includes lots of food, drinks, music, dancing and laughter.

The Receiving Line

Guests greeted at wedding reception

Just like the receiving line, we’ll keep this one short. The receiving line is optional and usually occurs just outside the reception site. Here, you’ll greet your guests as they arrive before they move onto the reception hall. They may congratulate you as you thank them for coming.

Cocktail Hour

“It’s always a good idea for everybody to loosen up and have some fun before the formalities begin.”

Wedding cocktail setup

In luxury weddings, a cocktail hour is usually served for guests to mingle, grab a drink and get to know each other. At an outdoor luxury wedding, this may include drinks on a patio or lawn area, along with light hors d’oeuvres.

Alternatively, you can opt for a tent or a reception hall with full bar service. In any case, drinks and a selection of light snacks, such as vegetable and cheese platters, nuts, or olives, are served.

The Grand Entrance

Newlywed couple holding hands

Once the cocktail hour is over, it’s time for the grand entrance of the newlyweds. As you make your way into the reception hall, all eyes will be on you. Depending on your preferences, this can include a choreographed dance or simply walking hand-in-hand while being announced.

“You’ll take your place at the head table, and the party will begin!”

The First Dance

Wedding first dance

The first dance is a momentous occasion in any wedding!

“It’s your chance to show off your moves and dazzle everyone with your chemistry as you share the first dance as husband and wife.”

Ballroom dancing is a popular choice, but there are also many other styles you can choose from, such as waltz, jazz, or even hip-hop! Whatever you decide, make sure it reflects your personality and style.

Toasts and Speeches

Toasts allow your guests to share heartfelt congratulations and support for the newlyweds. You can also opt for speeches, which are often more formal in nature and can include stories about both of you as a couple or individually.

Wedding toast after a speech

“Make sure you have beautiful champagne flutes or whatever type of glassware you prefer ready for the toasts and speeches.”

Dig In!

“By now, your guests are probably feeling pretty hungry! It’s time to break out the food. A luxury wedding reception is about excellent cuisine, professional wait staff, and a decadent atmosphere.”

You can rent all the catering equipment you need, such as plates, cutlery, and linens. Serve a delicious multi-course meal, or go for something casual like plated salads and buffet-style food stations.

Wedding breakfast buffet

Parent Dances

The parent dances signify a special moment between you and the people who have helped shape your lives.

“The father-daughter and mother-son dance is a beautiful way to honor your parents and thank them for their love and support.”

Bride and father dancing

Of course, you can mix it up how you like! You can even have both parents dance with each other or have the groomsmen and bridesmaids join in.

Boogie Down

Invite your guests to follow suit and get the party started! Dance music can be played all night long, from slow romantic tunes to upbeat numbers that will have everybody busting a move. You may also choose to hire live musicians to perform throughout the evening.

Wedding dance at the end of the night

“DJ or live band is one of the most debated elements in luxury weddings, but it’s up to you to decide which works best for your party.”

Cut The Cake

The wedding cake is a trademark element of any luxury wedding. From multiple tiers and unique flavors to beautiful decorations, the sky’s the limit when designing your dream cake. You’ve had your chance to admire your creation all night long, but now it’s time to cut the cake!

Cutting the cake at the wedding reception

You can choose a traditional method of cutting the cake or go for something more creative – maybe you’ll use a saber for an extra special flourish?

“Traditionally, the bride and groom will feed each other a piece of cake.”

The Last Dance

It’s time to end the night on a high note! The last song should tie the whole evening together, bringing all your guests together for one last dance. Alternatively, the newlyweds can be the center of attention with a slow dance.

No matter what you decide to do, make sure you choose a song that reflects the theme of the evening and allows you to savor the final moment of your big day.

Last dance with the bride and groom

The Grand Exit

Finally, the grand exit is a fun way to send off the newlyweds in an unforgettable manner. You could have your guests line up and create a pathway with sparklers or hand out colorful confetti for everyone to throw.

Just married wedding car

“A popular tradition is to follow them outside into a vehicle that reads “Just Married” or “Happily Ever After.”

Plan Your Wedding With Curated Events

Every one of these steps will require careful planning and attention to detail.
At Curated Events, we take the stress out of wedding planning and ensure your luxury wedding is everything you hoped for. We specialize in high-end rentals and decorations, so you can be sure your wedding will look fantastic and reflect your unique style.

Contact us today to start planning the luxury wedding of your dreams!

Maid of honor laughing with a bride

A Guide on the Maid of Honor’s Duties

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Hurray! Your best friend, sister, or close relative is finally tying the knot, and she asked you to be her maid of honor! While it is an exciting adventure, you start developing cold feet and anxiety. Well, that is normal, and you shouldn’t worry. At Curated events, we understand how daunting the task can be.

Bride with her bridesmaids maid of honor at her side.

A maid of honor is more than someone standing behind the bride. You are a best friend, a confidant, a shoulder to lean on, and the bride’s voice of reason. Furthermore, you have several other responsibilities, like leading the bridal party, planning a bridal shower, and hyping the wedding.

If you want to up your game and become an excellent maid of honor, our guide will help make your work easier. We’ll cover the MOH’s responsibilities before and during the wedding. Our Curated Events team can also help in planning the wedding.

Maid of Honor Duties Before the Wedding

Your work as a maid of honor starts after they bestow the role on you. Here are some of the duties you’ll handle as the wedding approaches.

Join in Wedding Dress Shopping

Bride and maid of honor wedding dress shopping

Helping in wedding dress shopping is arguably one of the best maids of honor responsibilities. However, while most brides ask their maids of honor to be present for this, some don’t. If your bride asks for your presence, you ought to show.

Your work is to help in the fitting and giving your honest opinion. Help zip up the dresses, hang them on the hangers and make a wedding dress board. Also, remember to be present for the dress alterations.

Lead and Guide the Bridal Party

As the maid of honor; you are the de facto bridal party leader. You are responsible for ensuring cohesion and collaboration among the bridesmaids and solving conflicts. You’ll introduce them to each other and act as an icebreaker.

Secondly, you must ensure that the party dresses are fit and ready before the wedding. The dresses are to par with the chosen color palettes. You’ll keep them on their toes and ensure they are prepared before the wedding.

Ensure you have the bridesmaids’ contacts by your side.

Help Plan the Wedding

Planning a wedding is a tedious task. There are several things to be done within a short time, and it could make the bride exhausted. While some brides prefer handling the tasks themselves, it is your responsibility as the right-hand person to help relieve the bride. Remember, you know her and her preferences, so your input can help.

You can help the bride find vendors, prepare the invitation cards, and choose the bridesmaids’ dresses. You can provide feedback on the progress, and they’ll appreciate your constant support.

Offer Emotional Support to the Bride

The tedious nature of preparing a wedding can take an emotional toll on the bride. Coupled with the anxiety of the big decision to wed, it could easily overwhelm them. It is your work as the maid of honor to check up on the bride and ensure she is doing well mentally and emotionally.

Reach out regularly and try to engage them in other fun things that don’t relate to the wedding. As a result, they can relax and have a clearer vision. They will appreciate you for this intangible gesture.

Act as a Point of Contact

Planning a wedding is already tiresome; having several people call and ask about the same can frustrate the bride. As such, you must relieve them of this responsibility and become the point of contact between the bride and others. It will save the bride time concentrating on other things and ease pressure and stress.

Ensure you grasp the wedding information so you can answer any questions for the bride.

Prepare a Wedding Survival Kit

While you can prepare for everything, you must always anticipate problems. A lot can go wrong before and during the wedding, and it is essential to plan for such scenarios.

You can carry some bridesmaid essentials like hair ties, safety pins, band-aids, and other emergency items that you may need. You can also have emergency vendor numbers if one of the chosen ones fails to show up or deliver.

Plan the Bridal Shower and Bachelorette Party

Bridal shower gathering

Bridal showers and bachelorette parties are usually confused as the same thing but are different. The common thing is that the maid of honor plans them.

A bridal shower involves the bride’s closest friends and family. It prepares the bride for her new life as a wife and consists of talks and advice. On the other hand, a bridal party is meant to destress the bride and the bridal party. It is attended strictly by the bride and bridesmaids, and it is all about partying.

You will plan this event and ensure that they run smoothly. You are also responsible for keeping track of all presents given to the bride.

Maid of Honor Responsibilities on the Wedding Day

Here is the maid of honor’s responsibilities on the wedding day.

Help the Bride Prepare for the Day

Maid of honor helping the bride with her dress

One of the most special maids of honor responsibilities is ensuring the bride is ready for the day. You’ve helped pick and fit the wedding dress, and it is time to help button up your bride in that stunning gown.

Ensure that they do their hair and makeup perfectly and the dress is in the proper condition. You may have to share the duty with a close relative like the bride’s mother or sister.

You must also ensure that you and the bride eat and hydrate enough before the wedding starts.

Coordinate the Bridesmaids

The bridesmaids are essential to any wedding; having them ready and on time is crucial. As their leader, you must ensure they carry out their duties and get ready on time. Ensure they are dressed and have their makeup on to avoid rushing anything.

You can manage your bridesmaids through a set-out timetable and regular progress check-ins. Encourage the bride’s party to do everything a bit earlier than stated.

Serve as the Bride’s Personal Help

You’ll act as the bride’s assistant on this special day. It’s the most observable maid of honor role and the one you may know. You’ll have duties while walking down the aisle and at the end.

When the bride is walking down the aisle, you’ll adjust the bride’s veil and gown so they can walk without tripping. You’ll repeat the same at the end of the aisle to ensure it is perfect for gorgeous wedding photos.

You’ll also hold some items for the bride throughout the ceremony. You’ll carry the flower bouquet as she exchanges vows and rings and the marriage certificate after they sign it. Your work ensures the bride can enjoy the day to the fullest.

You may also be in charge of keeping track of all presents given to the married couple.

Point of Communication with Vendors and Guests

You want your bride to forget about everything else and enjoy the day she gets married. As such, you don’t want her to get bothered. You must act as the point of communication between them and anyone else. Ensure you know all the vendors and are prepared to handle any questions.

TIP: Ensure you have the vendor payments ready to avoid confrontations.

Make a Toast/Speech

As the bride’s best friend and confidant; you should deliver a heartwarming speech at the reception. Learn how to prepare a wedding speech and concentrate on the good memories that led to that day.

Make it heartfelt, and throw in a few of your favorite jokes to make it more personal. Just ensure you don’t embarrass the bride by mistake.

Enjoying Your Role as Maid of Honor

The maid of honor is a cherishable role you must handle with care. You must take on a lot from the point of bestowment to the reception on the wedding day. While it is challenging, you can prepare and enjoy the adventure.

Ensure you go through our guide on the maid of honor’s duties, which will prepare you for the challenge ahead. Always ensure that you consult with the bride before making any major decision.

If you are helping the bride look for a Wedding planner, our Curate Events services are perfect. We have the best team in the field to ensure the wedding is a success. Please contact us for consultations.

Maid of Honor FAQs

What are my duties as the maid of honor?

As the maid of honor, you’ll help plan the wedding and go wedding dress shopping. On the wedding day, you’ll help the bride get ready, hold some things for her, ensure she eats and hydrates and take charge of any eventuality.

What’s the primary duty of the maid of honor?

The most important maid of honor role is assisting the bride during the planning stage and the wedding day. You are the support system, the manager, the peacekeeper, and the point of contact.

What does the maid of honor pay for?

Since the maid of honor is planning the bachelorette party, you’ll pay for the tiaras, food, drinks, and anything else you’ll need at the party.

Wedding favors laid on a table

The Wedding Favor Ideas Guide

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Giving guests wedding favors is a tradition that dates back to the 16th century. It is a great way to appreciate your guests for attending your ceremony and give them something to commemorate the day.

Think about it, your special day would be less memorable and as much fun with your friends and family coming through from near and far. Let’s talk about wedding favors!

Are Wedding Favors Important?

Wedding tokens aren’t a crucial part of the ceremony, like the wedding cake, but they are a great way to thank your guests and give them something to remember the event. The secret is to avoid clichés like tchotchkes that will probably get left on the table or thrown away. Favors don’t need to be over the top; what matters is the thought that goes into it.

The tradition of giving guests tokens has evolved tremendously over the years. Before you decide to dish out cash for the tokens, take time and reflect if it would be something that you would be happy or excited that you got.

It is probably not the right gift for your guests if not. Try and get something meaningful to you and those close to you. A little personal touch could be the difference between a great favor and a waste of money.

The Best Wedding Favor Ideas

With wedding favors, the spectrum is wide; you can go with the classic edible favors – which are usually fail-safe or opt for something more unique and utilitarian that your guests will use.

As you browse through these wedding favor ideas, you’ll realize that most of them are simple and do not require you to break the bank. Read to the end for fun and thoughtful gift ideas.

Chocolate Bars

As we mentioned earlier, edible favors are usually a hit. To tickle your guests’ sweet tooth, get chocolate bars, either dark or milk – it is totally up to you. Some customized wrapping or label takes the average bar to a new level of sophistication.

Scented Candles

Scented candles make for great wedding favors. Keep the vibes high by giving your guests awesome scents to take home. You can personalize the lids by writing your guests’ names and double up the candles as placeholders. An awesome two-in-one!

Scented candle wedding favor

Hand Fan Favors

If your special day happens to fall on a hot summer day or the setting is a tropical oasis, then hand fans are an amazing wedding favor. The fans don’t have to be over-the-top; you can even choose handmade custom fans to give a little personal touch. Besides being an awesome utility for hot events, the fans are a great photo booth prop.

Plantable Favors

Seeds are often considered a symbol of growth and harmony. When you offer your guests a favor pack with plantable seeds, it’s a simple but meaningful wedding token.

You can create an assortment of flowers used on your special day so your guests can also take home part of your wedding with them to bloom in their gardens.

Bottle Openers

On your special day, you can offer your friends and family keychains that double up as bottle openers. Most people only realize how important a tool an opener is once they want to pop open a cold one. Thanks to personalization, you can make them in a manner that always reminds your loved ones of you and your special day.

Unique bottle openers

Mini Hot Sauce Bottles

A small bottle of spicy hot sauce can sometimes be the perfect wedding favor. It is even more meaningful if you or your significant other is known for going around with a bottle of hot sauce. Add a personalized message like “thanks for spicing up our special day,” and encourage your guests to take a bottle as they leave.

Cupcake Boxes

You can never go wrong with edible tokens. You can have the pastry chef who bakes your cake whip up a similar flavor of cupcakes. Package the cupcakes in thoughtful boxes with a “thank you” note and watch your guests carry them all and even ask for more in some cases.

Mini Wine Bottles

At the end of the occasion, you’ll get questions from your guests about the delicious wine you served. Why not give them a mini bottle instead? You can have personalized labels on the bottles to give these favors an even more luxurious finishing touch.

Notepads

If you enjoy writing and taking notes like us, you’ll appreciate getting a handy notepad at a wedding ceremony. You can customize the cover to match your wedding theme and even have custom text for the guests’ names. A thank you message to your loved ones can also be inserted into the notepad.

Tambourines

Mini tambourines with your initials make for a great wedding gift and double up as celebratory sound makers. When the guests invite back the newly wedded couple, tambourines are a great way to make some celebratory noise.

Vases

This is often a common bridal shower token, but it can be repurposed for your big day. Get vases that match your wedding theme and gift them to the attendees. You can have them engraved with some special message.

After the event, the guests can fill their vases with flowers of their choice from the reception. This way, they take an actual piece of the special event with them, and the flowers don’t go to waste after one day.

Vase wedding favor

Mini Succulents

If you are a nature or outdoors lover, you can share this with your friends and family through small potted plants. Succulents and cacti make for a great takeaway gift. You can also have tags and transform them into live place cards, two for one!

Honey Jars

After a sweet event, why not have your guests take some of the sweetness with them in a custom honey jar? Honey jars are usually a fitting gift for summer and spring celebrations outdoors, but they are also all-year-round gifts.

Your guests can take away a sweet jar for a tasty post-wedding breakfast. With customization, the simple gift turns into something luxurious.

Fruit Cartons

Small fruit cartons are the way to go for your guests with a sweet tooth but who can’t take processed sugars. You can also source fresh fruits from your local farmers or get some fresh from your kitchen garden. Berries, apples, and pears usually make for the most preferred treats in a fruit carton.

Candy Packs

Again, with favors, edibles are usually foolproof. If you are a couple who share a sweet tooth, you can hand out customized packs with some of your favorite candies. You can even decide to throw in some personalized sugar cubes into the package.

S’mores Kits

You can have some mouthwatering s’mores kits for a more personal touch to the edibles. You don’t need to include the ingredients, but a creative note with something like “here’s to s’more love, laughter, and happily ever after.”

Smores wedding favor

Throw Blankets

If you’re hosting an outdoor event in a chilly setting, like next to the coast, where the breeze sets in at night, then neutral throw blankets are a great wedding favor.

Keep your loved ones warm with custom blankets bearing your initials and the special date. They can take the blankets home after the event, and they will certainly love how great they look on their couches at home.

Considerations for Wedding Favors

Wedding favor with confetti and candles

As mentioned earlier, wedding tokens aren’t necessary, but they are an awesome way to appreciate your loved ones for making your day successful and memorable.

When choosing wedding favors, your budget is the first and most important thing to consider. You have probably already spent a significant amount putting together the event, so don’t feel obliged to give your guests expensive favors.

Another consideration when choosing wedding favors is the number of expected guests. You can also give different tokens to adults and children. You can give one per couple or table, depending on the token type.

However, always pay attention to the parents, and ensure they get a favor because it is a big day for them as much as it is for you. They will want something to commemorate the occasion.

Finally, another important consideration with wedding favors is the presentation. It doesn’t matter how simple the favor is; what matters is how it is presented.

Try to match the favors with the overall theme of the reception, including the flowers and the linen. Because it is your way of saying, thank you to the people who attend your wedding, some thoughtfulness and creativity could reflect your intentions.

Final Thoughts

Like all things on your big day, wedding tokens also require planning. Give yourself or whoever is in charge of the wedding favors adequate time to find the perfect gift for your loved ones.

It doesn’t matter if you are hosting an intimate event with only 20 guests or a grand event with an ambitious 200; finding the perfect favor will take some time. You can use the creative ideas in this guide to help you pick out a wedding favor that resonates with you and your loved ones.

Best man pouring drinks

The Best Man Wedding Duties Guide

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Being asked to be the best man at a wedding is a great honor. You get to play an essential role in one of the happiest days of the couple’s life and an opportunity to show your love and support for the couple.

While it can be a rewarding experience, it also comes with plenty of responsibilities. This guide will provide all the essential information you need to know about your best man’s duties. Read on to find out everything to ensure you take care of your duties easily!

Planning the Bachelor Party

A bachelor party is a special event in the lead-up to the wedding, and it’s an important responsibility of the best man. It’s a chance for the groom to celebrate his last days of singledom with his closest friends and family, so you want to ensure it’s a fun and memorable night.

Discuss With the Groom

Before planning the perfect bachelor party, you must discuss it with the groom. Talk to him about what kind of night he wants. Is it a wild and crazy adventure or something more laid-back? You’ll also want to consider the budget and the groom’s preferences for activities.

Have the Party

Once you have a plan, it’s time to start inviting guests. Of course, the groom will want all his closest friends there, but don’t forget to include his family. You should also consider setting up a registry so that everyone can contribute if they choose. When it comes to the location of the bachelor party, you should focus on the groom’s personality and interests.

Make it Fun

No matter where you decide to go, you’ll want to make sure there are plenty of fun activities planned throughout the night. These activities can include drinking games, trivia contests, or karaoke nights. Make sure you also organize transport for your guests so they can travel safely and arrive home at the night’s end.

Gift the Groom

Finally, don’t forget to give the groom a special gift from his best man. This gift can be anything from a bottle of champagne to a custom item like a personalized flask or cigar cutter. No matter what you decide, this small gesture will make him feel extra special on his big night out.

Organizing a bachelor party is a daunting task. Still, with careful planning and consideration for the groom’s preferences, you can create an unforgettable night for him and his closest friends. Follow these tips, and soon enough, you’ll be throwing an unforgettable bachelor party!

Giving a Speech

As the Best Man, you must deliver an unforgettable speech on the big day. This is your chance to honor the newlyweds and give a touching toast that expresses your sincere congratulations.

Best man speech

Make sure to include stories about the bride and groom, thank everyone for attending, and offer your heartfelt wishes for the couple’s future. Above all, remember to have fun with it! You can make this moment special for the happy couple with creativity.

Handling the Rings

As the Best Man, it’s your job to look after the wedding rings during the ceremony. The rings should always be secure until it’s time to exchange them. On the wedding day, you’ll need to present the rings to the officiant when it’s time for the couple to exchange vows.

Organizing the Transportation

When it comes to wedding day transportation, the best man needs to be in the driver’s seat. Make sure everyone has a ride to and from the ceremony and reception, so all your friends and family can enjoy the festivities without worry.

Whether renting a bus or limo, assigning guests rides with designated drivers, or booking multiple Ubers, be sure to plan and coordinate with the bride and groom. You should handle this job far before the big day, so you’ll have one less thing to stress about on the big day. Make it a smooth ride for everyone!

Helping with the Wedding Plans

The wedding planning may be a lot for the bride and the groom to take on. In this case, they may ask you as the best man to help. Here’s how you can ensure that your best friend’s big day is a complete success.

Finding the Perfect Venue

This process can be daunting, but with the Best Man’s help, the search can be made much easier. Offer to help with the research, and you may even be able to find the perfect spot.

Organizing Guests

This process can include helping to create guest lists and deciding who should sit where during the ceremony.

You should also help in arranging accommodations for guests traveling from far away. This includes looking into booking hotels or organizing transportation from the airport.

Creating a Schedule

Once the venue and guests are taken care of, it’s time to create the big day’s timeline. This task is important and one that should not be overlooked. The Best Man can help create a detailed schedule that ensures everything runs smoothly.

Rehearsal Dinner Planning

The Best Man can take part in planning the rehearsal dinner if asked to. Offer to help with organizing food and drinks and setting up decorations. Don’t forget to ensure the couple has a memorable night before their big day!

Being There for the Bride and Groom on the Big Day

The wedding day is one of the most special days for the bride and groom. As the best man, it’s your job to support them and ensure everything runs smoothly. Here are some tips on how you can be the best man you can be and make sure the bride and groom enjoy their day.

During the Ceremony

You should be one of the first people at the venue on the wedding day. You can help with setup and provide a helping hand for any last-minute details. Greeting family and friends as they arrive and helping direct them to the ceremony space can also take a lot of pressure off the couple.

Throughout the ceremony, it’s important to stay in your place and not cause any distractions. The couple is the focus, and all eyes should be on them. As the best man, you can keep the rings safe, watch over the guests, and stay alert in case any issues arise. Remember to give a nod of approval when they seal it with a kiss!

After the Ceremony

After the ceremony, it’s time to transition into reception mode. Make sure that the newlyweds are getting their pictures taken, keeping on track with their timeline, and getting to spend some time alone together.

As the best man, you can usher guests to their seats for dinner, help coordinate speeches, and offer assistance with any other tasks that may arise.

At the end of the night, when it’s time for the couple to exit, you should lead the send-off line and make sure that the couple has a safe journey home. Let them know how much you’ve enjoyed being part of their big day and how happy you are for them. Give them a final farewell and watch them depart in style.

Being there for the bride and groom on their big day is one of the most important parts of being a best man. From planning to helping out on an actual day, ensuring they have a smooth and stress-free experience will leave them with lasting memories of this special occasion. With your support, they’ll have an unforgettable wedding day they’ll cherish forever.

Best Man Duties FAQs

How do I choose a suitable gift for the groom?

Think about what makes him unique; it doesn’t have to be expensive. Something meaningful, practical, or even humorous can be a great way to show your appreciation. Personalized gifts such as an engraved flask or watch are also excellent options.

Is there anything I should avoid saying in the best man’s speech?

It’s important to remember to stay classy in your speech – avoid crude jokes or any stories that could be offensive. Instead, focus on humorous anecdotes that paint a positive portrait of the couple’s relationship and honor their marriage commitment.

How should I prepare for my role?

To properly fulfill your role as best man, make sure you review any instructions from the couple in advance. Reaching out to each groomsman beforehand to introduce yourself and coordinate their participation is also beneficial. Finally, take some time to review traditions and expectations so you can help make this day memorable for everyone involved!

Winter wedding bouquet

The Best Flowers For A Winter Wedding

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Winter weddings can be magical with the right decorations and floral arrangements. The white, snowy backdrop is a perfect canvas for the union of two people, and the right flowers can add romance to the festivities. Unfortunately, many popular wedding flowers aren’t in season during winter.

Fear not — although the selection may be limited, there are still plenty of stunning blooms for your winter wedding. This blog post will discuss some of the best flowers for a luxury winter wedding, giving you plenty of inspiration for your big day.

How To Make The Most Out Of Winter Flowers

We’d like to share tips and tricks for making the most of winter flowers. Decorating with winter flowers can be tricky, but there are plenty of ways to ensure that your floral arrangements look elegant and luxurious.

Talk To Your Wedding Planner

Consult with your wedding planner on the flowers you’d like to use. Remember that the flowers you choose must fit with your winter wedding theme and the season’s weather. Depending on where you plan to get married, some flowers may not be available due to temperature or seasonal restrictions.

Your planner will also be able to offer advice on how best to arrange the winter blooms. They’ll be familiar with which types of flowers will look best in each of the different arrangements, so they’ll be able to help you create a beautiful display.

“If you don’t have a wedding planner already, please visit Curated Events for assistance with your wedding.”

Don’t Forget About Imports

Feel free to think outside the box regarding winter flowers. You can find some stunning floral arrangements if you want to try imported blooms. These may be more expensive than locally sourced flowers, but they will add a unique touch of luxury to your wedding.

It can be hard to source your desired flowers during winter, so consider sourcing from other countries or regions with milder climates. That way, you don’t have to settle for year-round blooms.

“Virtually any flower can be imported with enough time and money, making it easier to find the perfect luxury winter flowers for your ceremony.”

Add Berries, Pine Cones, And Other Accents

“If you’re still short of the perfect winter wedding flowers, don’t be afraid to supplement them with other decorations. Berries are an excellent addition to any bouquet, and a few pine cones can add a festive flair.”

These decorations are also cheaper than flowers, meaning you’ll have more money to spend on other wedding arrangements. The accents will add texture and color to your floral displays without sacrificing luxuries.

Beautiful wedding bouquet of flowers in the hands of the bride

Tones

Let’s talk about color. Many winter brides tend to use pastel or neutral shades for their wedding decorations, but there’s no reason why you can’t add a few bolder colors as well. Consider adding deep burgundy, bright green, and classic blue.

“Try using white and dark tones to create an elegant contrast.”

White flowers like lilies and roses are always popular choices for winter weddings. Dark flowers like black tulips, anemones, and orchids also come into vogue.

Complete With Greeneries

Finally, add some greenery to your flower arrangements. Greeneries will bring out the beauty of your flowers and create a natural feel in your venue. Eucalyptus, ivy, ferns, and holly are all excellent choices for winter weddings. These plants are easy to find year-round and will add texture to any bouquet.

In some cases, greeneries can even be used as the main focus of your decorations. Wreaths, garlands, and Christmas trees are popular for winter weddings.

Winter green garland on a wedding reception head table

Best Flowers For A December Wedding

Poinsettia

Poinsettias and Candles make beautiful winter wedding decor

As the official flower of the Christmas season, poinsettias are a popular choice for December weddings. Their bright red petals will add a festive touch to your decorations and make a bold statement at your venue.

If you’re looking for something muted, try the white poinsettia. It will give off an elegant snowflake feel while retaining its festive roots. Use these blooms to decorate the altar and the reception space.

White Rose

“Of course, there’s no flower quite as classic and romantic as the white rose.”

A bouquet of white roses in a vintage green glass vase

This delicate bloom will bring a timeless elegance to your winter wedding. Incorporate them into your bouquets or use them to decorate the tables and doorways.

White roses are also available in various sizes so that you can choose from large or small blooms depending on your needs. Plus, they’re easy to find year-round, making them a great choice for any winter wedding. Red roses are also an option if you’re looking for something a bit bolder.

Anemone

Wedding bouquet of pink roses and white anemone and pink ranunculus

White anemones are another great flower for a winter wedding. These blooms can be used as the main feature of your arrangements or mixed with other flowers in bouquets and centerpieces.

“With their black centers and white petals, anemones are an excellent option for those looking to add some contrast to their winter wedding. They’ll also have no trouble standing out in the snow.”

Star of Bethlehem

Another great flower for a winter wedding is the star of Bethlehem. These white blooms have long-lasting properties and will give off a soft feel at your venue. Their petals have a star-like shape with a rugged edge that will bring out the beauty of your decorations.

Beautiful ornithogalum umbellatum flowers

“In addition to its aesthetic value, the star of Bethlehem is also a symbol of hope and rebirth. What better way to celebrate your special day than with these beautiful blooms?”

Stephanotis

For a more minimalist look, try Stephanotis. This flower is often used in bridal bouquets due to its delicate beauty and pleasant scent. The fragrance is reminiscent of jasmine, so it’s sure to be a hit with your guests.

Wedding bouquet featuring ivory roses white freesias and stephanotis blossoms

Stephanotis is also an excellent choice for winter weddings due to its white petals and star-like shape. Their small yet eye-catching size is manageable.

Best Flowers For A January Wedding

Tulip

Peach and white wedding bouquet

Start the new year with tulips. These blooms are so popular that growers readily produce them year-round, making them an easy choice for winter weddings. Their vibrant colors and cup-shaped blooms will bring a lively atmosphere to your venue.

“Peach tulips are beautiful and match well with other winter blooms.”

You can also opt for white tulips to add elegance to your décor. Remember that these are relatively small flowers and may need to be grouped together in larger arrangements.

Camellia

Alabama’s official state flower, the camellia, is a lesser-known flower that works well for winter weddings. These blooms are tough and resilient, making them an excellent choice for outdoor ceremonies. They also come in countless colors, ranging from deep reds to bright whites.

Camellia flower bouquet

Gardenia

Available year-round, gardenias are a classic flower for weddings. These blooms come in shades of white and cream, so they fit the theme of winter ceremonies.

“Gardenias have thick petals that will make your bouquets stand out from the crowd.”

Bridesmaid holding a gardenias bouquet

Best Flowers For A February Wedding

Amaryllis

Amaryllis is an excellent choice for a February wedding. These blooms have bright red or pink petals and are known for their bold color and long-lasting beauty. A single amaryllis bloom can make a statement at your ceremony in a bouquet or as a centerpiece on the tables.

A bouquet of elegant white amaryllis.

Narcissus Paperwhite

Little Bouquet of Paperwhite Narcissus

Add some sophistication to your February wedding with narcissus paperwhites. These white and yellow blooms symbolize hope and faithfulness, two great qualities to start your marriage on. Thanks to their funnel-shaped blossoms and long stems, they are among the most beautiful winter flowers.

Phalaenopsis Orchid

Bouquet in the hands of the bride. White orchids

Although they are more expensive than other winter blooms, Phalaenopsis orchids are worth the splurge. With their long stems and elegant petals, these flowers will provide a bit of luxury to your décor. The pale pink shades are perfect for a February wedding, while white orchids can be used for a more formal look.

Ranunculus

If you’re going for something more unique, look into ranunculus. Tightly bunched petals make these flowers look like ruffled roses, but their delicate colors will soften your arrangements. Ranunculus come in shades of pink, yellow and red, so you can find something to match your color scheme.

A riotous peony shaped rose bouquet

Trust Curated Events For Your Dream Wedding

No matter what type of winter wedding you plan, these flowers can help make it memorable. Trust Curated Events for all your wedding needs to ensure everything goes according to plan. We will help create the perfect day, from floral arrangements to equipment rentals.

Contact us today to start planning your dream winter wedding!

Bridesmaids holding beautiful bouquets

The Best Flowers For A Spring Wedding

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Spring is in the air, the flowers are blooming, and most importantly, the wedding season is here. Many couples planning to get married during spring may wonder what flowers they should choose for their special day.

Countless beautiful blooms can help make your wedding breathtaking, but some flowers are highly recommended for a flawless spring ceremony.

This blog post will discuss the best flowers for a spring wedding, covering everything from their availability to their characteristics.

What Makes A Good Spring Flower?

Before diving into the different spring varieties, let’s take a moment to understand what qualities make these flowers the best choice. Good spring flowers will be long-lasting and easy to work with. However, you should also consider the following:

Seasonality

Spring flowers will be in season during spring, meaning their blooms will look freshest and most vibrant. With other varieties, you may have to consider whether or not they are available all year round. Not all flowers bloom at the same time, so check what kinds are available when planning your wedding.

Colors

“Just like muted colors work best in fall weddings, brighter hues typically fit best with a spring theme.”

You can choose shades of pink and purple or opt for bolder colors like orange, yellow, and red. But most importantly, make sure that the colors complement each other and match the rest of your wedding decorations.

Wedding themes play a big role in choosing the right flowers. Classic, romantic, and elegant weddings may call for white roses; while modern and trendy ceremonies should consider Gerbera daisies or tulips.

Bridal bouquet with dahlia ranunculus and other spring varieties

Symbolism

Finally, some people may prefer incorporating symbolism into their floral arrangements. For centuries, humans have attached special meanings to certain flowers.

“Roses signify love and commitment; orchids represent luxury and beauty; daisies represent innocence and joy; lilies symbolize purity, and so on.”

Consult your spouse and wedding planner to decide which flowers best suit your wedding theme and the message you wish to convey.

March Wedding Flowers

March is the first month of spring, so not all flowers will be in bloom yet. However, you can still add plenty of cheer to your ceremony with the following.

Hydrangea

A bride’s best friend, hydrangeas come in various colors and sizes that provide a soft and romantic feel. They have unique petals and are relatively hardy, which makes them ideal for spring bouquets. These flowers also pair nicely with other spring blooms like roses, tulips, and peonies.

Blue hydrangeas flower arrangements

Sweet Pea

“A more subtle flower than others, sweet peas are typically light pink or purple and have an intricate petal structure.”

Bride with a sweet pea bouquet

They add a subtle hint of color to any floral arrangement without overpowering the other blooms. Originally from the Mediterranean, sweet peas are also an excellent choice for cooler spring climates.

Lily Of The Valley

“Delicate and fragrant, lilies of the valley are elegant, timeless, and often used in traditional wedding ceremonies. You might have seen them at Kate Middleton’s royal wedding.”

Lily of the valley bouquet

The dainty stems are a breathtaking feature, while their petals bring a touch of softness and romance. While these gorgeous little flowers are fragrant and delicate, they are often very costly to source.

Ranunculus

These flowers are best for the modern bride. Their unique texture and vibrant colors add a contemporary flair to any bouquet or centerpiece. Ranunculus come in many shades, including pink, orange, yellow and red, making them the ideal choice for a bright and cheerful spring wedding.

Delicate ranunculus peony roses ozotamnus and eucalyptus long ribbons

Tulip

Not much needs to be said about this famous bloom. Rich in history and symbolism, tulips are one of the most beloved wedding flowers.

Bride and bridesmaids holding red tulip wedding bouquets

“They bring forth joy and optimism, two essential traits for a successful marriage. They also come in countless different colors, allowing you to create the perfect spring bouquet.”

April Wedding Flowers

As we move into April, more blooms become available for your wedding. Here are a few of the most popular flowers for this month.

Hyacinth

Bouquet of hyacinth flowers

If you’re looking for something smaller and more subtle, hyacinths are a great choice. Their bulbous blooms provide a unique texture. Available in a rainbow of colors, these flowers will surely bring plenty of cheer to your floral arrangements. They also smell absolutely heavenly!

Daffodil

Elegant spring white and yellow wedding bouquet of daffodils lisianthus eucalyptus and matricaria camilla.

Most people know the yellow daffodil, but this flower also comes in white and orange. It exudes a sunny and optimistic energy that matches the season. Daffodils can be used in bouquets, boutonnieres, or centerpieces to add a bit of brightness to your ceremony.

“Their petals are delicate yet strong, making them a symbol of endurance and hope.”

Lilac

Another spring favorite, the lilac, is a fragrant and colorful bloom. These flowers come in shades of purple, pink, and white, allowing you to easily match them with your wedding palette. The lilac’s long green stems add a pop of texture that can’t be ignored.

Woman in wedding dress holding a bouquet of lilacs

Snapdragons

“Add height and drama to your arrangements with snapdragons. These flowers stand tall and can be used as a statement piece.”

Snapdragon flowers

With its bright colors, ruffly petals, and unique shape, the snapdragon is sure to make your wedding extra special.

May Wedding Flowers

Finally, the month of May is when spring is in full bloom. Temperatures are warm, and the flowers are abundant. As such, you’ll have a host of stunning blooms to choose from.

Rose

Beautiful rose bouquet

The queen of all flowers, the rose is a surefire choice for May weddings. This bloom is timeless and classic, working for any occasion. Roses come in a variety of colors to match your wedding theme. During this month, they also come in particularly large sizes. Consider mixing the colors together for an extra elegant touch.

“You can also use the petals to create a romantic path for your ceremony.”

Cherry Blossom

This Japanese flower is known worldwide for its beauty. Its delicate petals and enchanting color make it a popular choice for brides in the springtime. From the lightest of pinks to the brightest of whites, there’s a cherry blossom for every wedding palette.

Pink cherry blossom sakura

Stock

Keep it simple yet sweet with stock flowers. These plants are often used for boutonnieres and floral arrangements. They come in many shades of pink, white, and purple, allowing you to choose one that works with your color theme. Aside from their beauty, these flowers also have a wonderful fragrance that will linger throughout the day.

Matthiola incana flower stock flowers

Peonies

“Peonies are the epitome of spring. Their lush petals and delicate fragrance create an air of romance and elegance.”

Wedding bouquet of peonies and roses

These flowers come in various colors, such as white, pink, red, and even yellow. They will also look good for hours, which will last throughout the ceremony and reception.

Deciding On Your Flowers

There’s no doubt that there are plenty of stunning flowers to choose from for your spring wedding. So, how do you decide which to use? The elimination process can be overwhelming, so take your time and explore all your options.

Start by creating a list of flowers you like, then narrow it down to the ones that match your theme and budget. With careful planning and attention to detail, you’ll surely find suitable blooms for your special day.

Trust The Experts

Ideally, you’ve partnered with a professional event planner who can help you choose the best flowers for your wedding. They know which blooms work well together and how to tie them into your desired aesthetic. With their expertise, you can have a wedding that will impress all your guests.

At Curated Events, our designers take pride in creating a unique wedding experience. We will guide you through the entire planning process and ensure that your wedding is everything you’ve dreamed of.

“From selecting the perfect blooms to designing the perfect tablescape, we have got you covered.”

Wedding Day Rentals

Curated Events is a premier event rental company, so we also have all the necessary items to make your wedding day special. After all, it’s the little details that make all the difference. We have a variety of decor, such as lanterns, to complement your floral arrangements.

We also carry linens in many different colors and textures, so you can create a stunning wedding reception. We can turn your dream into a reality.

Contact us today and start planning your spring wedding with Curated Events!

Married couple in a beautiful autumn woodland setting

The Best Flowers For A Fall Wedding

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As summer fades away and the leaves start to change color, the days grow shorter and cooler. Fall is a season of beauty but also one that brings with it many opportunities for celebration. Couples who choose to get married during this time of year often search for just the right flowers to enhance their special day.

Nature provides a range of vibrant colors and interesting shapes and sizes that couples can use to create beautiful floral arrangements for their ceremony and reception. To help you decide which blooms are best suited for your fall wedding, we’ve rounded up the top flowers for a fall wedding.

What Makes A Flower Appropriate For Fall?

While the fall foliage and changing leaves are a great source of inspiration when selecting flowers, some are better suited for the season than others.

“When choosing your fall wedding blooms, look for tones that complement the season’s muted palette, such as warm oranges and yellows, deep purples, and bright reds. Fall is also a season symbolizing change, so go for flowers that evoke a feeling of movement and transformation.”

Bright unusual elegant autumn bouquet in the hands of the bride

In addition to their vibrant color, pretty fall flowers can help set the mood for a romantic evening. As we will discuss below, many of the best flowers for a fall wedding include classic blooms like dahlias, roses, and hydrangea.

Best In-Season Flowers For October Weddings

October is one of the most popular months for weddings, thanks to the fall foliage adding extra beauty to any outdoor ceremony. The best flowers for an October wedding will be in season and locally available.

Here are our favorites:

Dahlias

The dahlia is a stunning flower that can come in various sizes and colors, perfect for any fall wedding. Their fanning petals and punching colors can instantly add drama and romance to a wedding bouquet or table centerpiece.

Bright wedding bouquet of summer dahlias and roses

“Consider pairing dahlias with other seasonal flowers such as ranunculus, roses, and hypericum berries.”

Chrysanthemum

Next is the Chrysanthemum, a classic bloom that adds texture and color to fall wedding arrangements.

“You might hear this delicate flower called “mums,” a common nickname for chrysanthemums. Mums usually come in shades of white, yellow, red, and purple.”

Chrysanthemums are an excellent choice for highlighting the season’s cooler temperatures and make a beautiful addition to any fall wedding celebration.

Wedding bouquet of chrysanthemum in brides hands

Orchids

“Add a dash of luxury to your fall wedding with orchids. A symbol of beauty for centuries, these exotic flowers have a reputation for being rare and divine.”

Orchids also have a unique arching form that makes them stand out in a bouquet. Plus, they have a fragrant scent that will linger in the air throughout your wedding.

Beautiful bridal bouquet of white orchids

Magnolias

Lily and Magnolia Bouquet

A beautiful blossom that fits all, the Magnolia is a great pick for an autumn wedding. The cup-shaped petals offer a unique look for your centerpiece or bouquet. And although they come in various colors, the bright white magnolias are a classic choice for fall weddings. Their pretty leaves will also add dimension to your floral arrangement.

Camellias

“The Camelia looks like it could be an offspring of the rose and Dahlia, but it’s an entirely different flower.”

Bunch of pink camellia flowers in a clear glass vase on a vintage white chair.

The pink ones are the most popular, and they look beautiful when combined with white and yellow blooms. Camellias are perfect for a fall wedding bouquet or centerpiece, representing love and faithfulness in your union.

Best In-Season Flowers For November Weddings

If you’re getting married in November, you can still take advantage of the season’s abundant blooms. These are some of our favorite flowers for a November wedding:

Stocks

You can’t go wrong with stocks, a classic flower for the season. These aromatic blooms come in a wide range of colors, such as pink, lavender, purple and white, that will look stunning against your fall wedding backdrop.

Lady holding a bunch of pink and purple matthiola incana flowers

“Stocks also have an elongated shape that will bring movement and flair to your bouquet or centerpiece.”

Peonies

Everybody loves peonies! These romantic blooms come in shades like coral, blush, and cream. Peonies also have a wispy texture and soft centers that evoke a feeling of luxury and grace. Many wedding bouquets and centerpieces will include them, so there may be more original options, but it’s a classic. Peonies also smell incredible!

“The best way to add a fall element to a traditional bouquet of peonies is to add sunflowers. These bright yellow blooms bring an energy of life to your special day.”

With large petals and a cheerful color, sunflowers make a bold and beautiful statement. Their brown centers can also help bring contrast to your arrangement.

Beautiful pink peony flowers on white stone table

Scabiosa

“The scabiosa is a unique bloom with gorgeous ruffled petals. This flower has a low profile, so it’s best for hanging arrangements or cascading bouquets.”

Scabiosa also come in various colors, such as white, soft pink, and lavender. These will complement the November wedding color palette. In addition, these blooms have a subtle honey fragrance that will make your wedding scent as sweet as it looks.

Pink scabiosa flowers

Paperwhites

Finally, paperwhites are an excellent option for a November wedding. These traditional blooms have a pointed center and delicate white petals that look gorgeous.

Close up of white daffodil flowers known as Paperwhite

What Kind Of Filler Stems Can You Add?

Don’t forget the filler stems when picking the best flowers for your fall wedding. These plants will add texture and volume to your bouquet or centerpiece without removing the main attraction. Here are some of our favorite filler blooms for a fall celebration:

Maple Leaves

Autumn flower composition with roses chrysanthemums and maple leaves

Maple leaves are a great way to give your centerpiece or bouquet an autumnal vibe. The maple leaf’s rich red, orange, and yellow tones will look stunning against seasonal flowers. Plus, you can easily save these dried leaves after the wedding as a memento.

Olive Branches

“One of the more symbolic filler stems, olive branches have a long history of representing peace.”

A wedding bouquet of purple hydrangeas olive branches and succulents

They’re especially popular for weddings and can give your bouquet or arrangement a classic touch. Olive branches are often associated with ancient Greece and will add a timeless charm to your special day.

Solidago

Yellow soligado flowers

Solidago, also known as goldenrod, is a beautiful filler stem for your fall wedding. These small yellow blooms will add a subtle brightness to the room. Plus, solidago comes in various shades, like ivory and golden yellow, that will help create a striking look. Pair them with other seasonal flowers and greenery for the perfect autumnal bouquet.

Queen Anne’s Lace

Queen Annes lace flowers

Queen Anne’s lace is a traditional filler stem that looks beautiful in various wedding arrangements. Also known as wild carrots, these flowers have a bulbous center and thin petals that evoke an old-fashioned feel. They look especially nice when paired with bolder blooms like dahlias or roses.

How To Choose The Best Fall Wedding Flowers

With so many beautiful blooms and filler stems to choose from, it can be hard to decide which flowers are best for your fall wedding. Here are a few tips for picking the perfect seasonal arrangement:

Consider your theme – Every wedding has its own unique style. Think about the look you’re going for and choose flowers that reflect that. For instance, luxury chic weddings often feature elegant blooms like roses and dahlias.

Think about the colors – Many fall wedding color palettes include muted tones such as rust, mustard yellow, and plum. Choose flowers that will match this aesthetic for a cohesive look.

Mix and match – Don’t be afraid to mix and match different types of blooms. Combining wildflowers with roses or adding touches of greenery will give your bouquet a unique look.

Don’t forget about texture – Texture is essential when creating a beautiful floral arrangement. Add filler stems like eucalyptus or solidago for a more interesting look.

Where To Rent Your Wedding Decor

With these tips in mind, you’ll be able to choose a stunning floral arrangement for your fall wedding. If you’re looking for a place to rent your decor, check out Curated Events’ selection of services. We have everything from arches and backdrops to tables and chairs. Our experienced team is always on hand to help you choose the perfect pieces for your big day.

As for flowers, we work closely with top-rated florists to provide you with the best blooms for your arrangements. Our designers can help you choose and source the perfect flowers for your fall wedding.

Curated Events has been in the business of creating unforgettable weddings for decades. We know exactly how to make your day unforgettable. Contact us today to get started!

Wedding florist setting up

The Guide On How To Tip Wedding Vendors

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Planning and budgeting for a wedding can be stressful, especially when you want to get every detail right. There are many things to remember, and it is easy to forget important things. And one important thing that should be remembered is the tips!

Tipping wedding vendors is a thoughtful act that shows appreciation for exemplary work. Wedding vendors bend over backward to make you happy on your important day. It is not mandatory to tip wedding vendors, but the gesture is appreciated. However, some vendors also include gratuities in their service contracts, so they automatically receive tips when you clear the bill.

Do you need help with how to tip vendors on your big day? Here is a complete guide detailing which vendors to tip, how much you should tip, and when to tip them.

Basic Wedding Tip Guides

Before we get into it, there are a few pointers to keep in mind.

  1. It is better to give tips to the staff directly. Managers and owners have no rights to tips received by staff.
  2. Offer small company owners a tip. Small company owners work alone but occasionally bring in additional aid to ensure they meet or surpass expectations. They always welcome tips.
  3. Read contacts thoroughly to check if gratuities are included in the total cost for services rendered. You are not obligated to offer extra tips if they were already included in the contracts.
  4. Tips are not mandatory but are considered good etiquette.
  5. Add a personal touch by writing thank-you notes to the vendors after the wedding.
  6. Remember to write good reviews for vendors who please you with their services. You can do this after your honeymoon.
  7. Finally, send wedding images to your vendors so they may utilize them in their catalogs.

Beautiful coastal wedding ceremony setup

How much and when should you tip vendors?

There are standard tipping rates in the wedding industry and basic rules of etiquette you must follow. Here is everything you must know, with jump links to make navigation easier:

  • Wedding Planners
  • Wedding Venue Coordinator
  • Catering Personnel
  • Wedding Ceremony Officiant
  • Makeup and Hair Artists
  • Transportation Company
  • Photographers and Videographers
  • Wedding Ceremony Musicians
  • Wedding Band
  • Wedding DJ
  • Florists
  • Reception Waitstaff
  • Reception Bartender
  • Delivery Personnel
  • Attire Alterations Pros
  • Catering Personnel
  • Florists

Floral designers provide stunning arrangements that turn wedding venues into enchanted landscapes. They go above and beyond to ensure you have a memorable wedding day. Tip the florist as a token of appreciation.

Protocol: Optional
Amount: 15-20% of your entire flower expense.
Time: After the wedding.

Wedding Planners

About half of the couples do give their planners a gratuity. It is optional, and wedding planners do not normally expect anything but you may always give them tips or a lovely present as a thank you. Gifting the wedding planner your wedding photo is a thoughtful gesture.

Protocol: Optional.
Amount: 10%–20%, or up to $500.
Time: Give your token of gratitude after the reception.

Wedding Venue Coordinator

The tip is normally included in the contract; if it is not added, the tip is according to standard rates.

Protocol: Expected.
Amount: $250 to $500, or 15% of the food and beverage tab.
Time: Before the wedding or after the reception.

Wedding Ceremony Officiant

Officiants can be tipped directly if they do not work under a religious institution. However, clergy or judges may not accept cash tips. You can therefore donate to their religious institution instead. If the officiant is from your place of worship, feel free to tip extra. Otherwise, the standard amount will do.

Protocol: Expected.
Amount: Tip the officiant $50-$100 and $100–$500 to the institution.
Time: When paying for the ceremony fee before the wedding or during the rehearsal.

Makeup and Hair Artists

Makeup artist preparing the bride

Tip them just like you would when getting your hair or makeup done at the salon. Encourage your bride’s maids to tip the makeup and hair artists.

Protocol: Expected.
Amount: Tip 15–25% of your entire bill as gratuity.
Time: At the end of their duty.

Transportation Company

Gratuity for the transportation personnel is normally included in the contacts. However, read the contacts to find out. If it is not included, tip them for timely pick-up and excellent service.

Protocol: Expected.
Amount: 15-20% of your overall price should be a gratuity for the wedding transportation workers.
Time: At the end of the evening or following the last ride.

Wedding Ceremony Musicians

How well have the ceremony musicians performed? Are they meeting your expectations? Consider the performance’s quality when deciding how much to give.

Protocol: Optional.
Amount: Each musician, $15–20.
Time: After the performance

Wedding Band

When you think about how much to tip the wedding band, consider how well they perform.

Protocol: Optional.
Amount: Tip $20-$35 for each musician.
Time: After the reception.

Wedding DJ

Is the DJ entertaining? Are they playing the kind of music you like? Did the DJ take requests or remember to play your favorite song? If a DJ meets your expectations, consider giving a generous tip because the music sets the mood for the wedding reception.

Protocol: Optional.
Amount: Tip $50-$150
Time: After the reception.

Photographers and Videographers

Photographer showing the bride and groom his photos

Videographers and photographers only expect tips if they are business owners. You can still tip them to express your gratitude for the good work done. We know photographers go the extra mile to capture the magical moments on our special days. A token of appreciation is much welcome.

Photographers and videographers occasionally hire extra help on busy days. Tipping the extra shooters goes a long way.

Protocol: Optional
Amount: $50 to $100 per person or a gift.
Time: After the reception.

Reception Waitstaff

Valets, restroom waitstaff, and other venue attendants work very hard to ensure things flow seamlessly at your wedding. They take care of the little things, which, if left unattended, could cause a mess. Tipping venue attendants is an expression of your gratitude for their efforts.

Protocol: Optional.
Amount: On your food and beverage bill, tip between 15 and 20% of labor expenditures.
Time: After the reception.

Reception Bartender

Sometimes tips are included in the contacts. You can still tip the bartenders for delivering outstanding services.

Protocol: Optional.
Amount: 10% of the entire bar tab should go toward tips.
Time: After the reception.

Delivery Personnel

Tipping personnel delivering the wedding cake, flowers, or other items is standard practice. Give a trusted venue attendant or the venue coordinator an envelope with extra cash to disperse gratuity to delivery personnel whenever they drop off a package. The small gesture will put a smile on their faces.

Protocol: Expected.
Amount: Tip every individual $5-$10.
Time: Whenever they make a delivery.

Attire Alterations Pros

You are not required to tip the individual altering your clothes. Do this only if you are pleased with their service.

Protocol: Optional.
Amount: Tip $20 to $30.
Time: During the last fitting.

Wedding bar outside

Catering Personnel

The catering personnel’s gratuity is usually included in the contracts.

Protocol: Expected.
Amount: Tip 15–20% of the food & beverage bill.
Tip the Catering/Banquet Manager and Head Waiter $100–$300 each. Tip the Head Chef $50–$100 and the Wait Staff and Kitchen Staff $20 each.
Time: After the ceremony.

Wedding Tipping FAQs

What is the etiquette for tipping wedding vendors?

Gratuity is commonly included in service contracts as a percentage of the total bill. However, not all vendors will do this. The standard rates are listed above, but you should feel free to tip extra. Depending on the industry practice, you can tip vendors before or after the reception.

How much did you tip wedding vendors in 2022?

Tips can be as low as $10 or as high as $500. The amount depends on the services offered by the vendors. The amount always ranges from 15-20% of the vendors’ total bill.

Do you tip wedding vendors 20%?

You can tip wedding vendors up to 20% of their total bill if you love their services. Tips are rewards for vendors who provide remarkable service or go above and beyond their contractual obligations.

Is it rude not to tip wedding vendors?

Yes. Tipping has become common practice in the wedding industry. However, wedding vendors do not demand tips. But the gesture is appreciated and often included in contracts as a percentage of the total cost of services rendered.

It is important to remind you that you should not feel guilty if you do not want to tip the vendors. Most vendors do not expect tips, and the action is voluntary.

Tented wedding reception table setup

Luxury Table Settings Guide For Your Wedding

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Planning for your wedding day can be exciting and overwhelming in equal measure! “Although it is exhilarating to start building your new life with the person you love most, putting together a proper celebration to grace the occasion can be daunting.”

There are hundreds, if not thousands, of things to consider when planning your wedding reception. From the centerpieces to the shapes of the tables and the seating arrangements, it’s no wonder many brides opt to hire a professional planner to get the job done!

Wedding table setup with long tables

Are you looking to host a beautiful event that will leave a lasting impression with minimal effort? Then Curated Events is the partner you never knew you needed. We are your best choice for events, luxury, and class.

This article will explore the top considerations while setting up tables for your wedding, the three main event designs, table layout options, and centerpiece ideas for your wedding reception.

Top Considerations While Setting Up Tables For Your Wedding

“Fitting in allows you to blend in with everyone else, but being different allows you to be yourself, to be unique, and to be more creative.” – Sonya Parker.

When planning your wedding, you must remain true to who you are. After all, it is YOUR day! While it is okay to borrow ideas from others, remember to consider your preferences above the current trends.

Below is a list of seven crucial elements to consider as you begin to plan your table settings for your wedding reception:

Theme

Your wedding theme will dictate the overall look and feel of your table settings. For example, if you’re going for a classic elegant wedding, you will likely lean towards pastel color palettes and fine china. At Curated Events, we offer over 20 lines of china in classic and artistic styles for rent.

Budget

“The size of your budget will influence your choices for the details on the table settings.” Therefore, you must determine how much you are willing to spend on the rental elements before choosing styles and designs. Additionally, the venue you pick to host your wedding may provide some table-setting essentials you may need, whereas in other cases, you may have to hire additional items.

Guestlist

The composition of your guestlist is critical in determining the seating arrangement. For instance, a long table setup would be appropriate if your guestlist is intimate. However, round tables usually work best if you host a larger crowd.

Linens

Napery refers to table linen/tablecloths, runners, and napkins. You must consider the colors, textures, and patterns as you choose the appropriate fit for your wedding theme and style. “Curated Events is a fantastic option for renting linens as our collection comprises thousands of choices, from whimsical to glamorous.”

Stationery

Your table set-up may include stationery such as food and drinks menus, wedding programs, and table numbers. Ensure that the design work on these printed items matches your desired theme and aesthetic. Your tables risk looking cluttered and haphazard if these elements clash.

Centerpieces

Typically, the centerpieces are the “star of the show” regarding the table setting. As a result, you will want to pay keen attention to the details of your centerpieces. Additionally, as with most design elements on your table, your theme will be a vital consideration.

Tables and Chairs

Comfort is crucial when choosing the tables and chairs your guests will occupy. However, aesthetics are just as critical because it wouldn’t make sense for the chairs to be comfortable but not in sync with the theme. Therefore, if you want to rent tables and chairs of distinctive designs, Curated Events has got you covered!

Additions

You can add any items you feel will help execute your theme. Whether you want to add party favors or decor items, the choice is up to you! For example, you can provide drinking water for the guests in fancy bottles with an inscribed thank-you message.

Three Main Event Designs By Curated Events

As follows:

Garden

“Although a garden-style wedding is a beautiful choice, it is only appropriate when the weather is conducive, during the early summer and fall months.”

Bride and groom at a garden wedding ceremony

Classic

Also referred to as a traditional wedding, this style typically consists of formal attire and three-course meals. In addition, the color palettes, stationery, and linens that complement this theme are usually timeless and elegant.

Modern

This style of wedding is more flexible and contemporary than the traditional style. Trendy florals, monochromatic color palettes, and sleek decor denote this table-setting option. Additionally, there are fewer religious restrictions while conducting the ceremony in modern-style weddings.

Table Layout Options For Your Wedding Reception

It is critical to ensure that you make the appropriate seating arrangements for your wedding guests. A few relevant questions to ask yourself during the planning process are – Who are the attendees? How many guests are we expecting? What is the demographic of the attendees?

There are numerous options when it comes to layout. Here’s a look at the top ones:

  • Round tables – It is common to have circular or round tables at a wedding reception due to their versatility. These tables range in size, depending on the number of people you are looking to accommodate on each one. The options include 36 inches, 48 inches, 60 inches, and 72 inches, with a capacity for 2-4, 4-6, 8, and 10 individuals, respectively.
  • Rectangular tables – These vary in length, from long ones that facilitate large groups of up to 10 individuals to smaller, more intimate ones. This option is ideal for self-service food set-ups as it can get cumbersome for servers to wait on larger tables.
  • Square tables – This is less conventional than round and rectangular tables. Square tables are available in various sizes ranging from 3×3 inches and 4×4 inches to 5×5 inches. Additionally, only a few events companies offer this option. “However, because of the ample space, square tables are a fantastic choice for large centerpiece designs, but more difficult to seat many people.”
  • Banquet tables – This style is formed when you put together multiple rectangular tables to create a long straight table for the guests. You can opt for this style if you desire an intimate gathering with a small number of guests.
  • Mix and match tables – The best thing about your wedding day being yours is the freedom to decide how you want everything to look. You are not limited to only one style; you can mix and match table shapes to bring out your style and meet the needs of your event.

Unique Centerpiece Ideas For Your Wedding

Beautiful outdoor wedding table setup

Out of all the decor items on your wedding day, the centerpieces are sure to make the loudest statements. The reasoning is that the centerpieces are at the heart of the tables where your guests will be sitting.

Below is a list of unique centerpiece ideas that will leave your wedding etched in the attendees’ minds:

  • Tall floral centerpieces – Sometimes, less is more, and other times, more is just what you need! With round tables, a selection of tall flower vases with long greenery will give the illusion of outdoor ambiance in an indoor set-up.
  • Trailing Bud vases – sometimes this requires fewer flowers but still makes a huge impact!
  • Candles – Using candles on elaborate candleholders as your centerpieces will give your wedding a traditional yet elegant feel.
  • Floral garland – Instead of using linen table runners, you can create a floral posy that runs across the center of your tables. However, this will appeal better with rectangular tables rather than round ones.
  • Dessert centerpieces – You can top your tables with fruit or cake centerpieces that serve as both functional and decorative pieces.

Table settings

Final Thoughts

Every bride and groom desires a wedding day that will showcase their uniqueness while still keeping it trendy and appealing to her guests. However, it can get overwhelming when choosing a theme, centerpieces, and table settings that all tie in together.

If you are planning for your big day and need help in the execution of ideas, Curated Events is here for you. With a keen eye for detail, our team of passionate and experienced planners is ready to be at your service.

Additionally, if you have already come up with your preferred decor ideas but need to hire equipment to execute your plan, Curated Events is your answer! We specialize in providing a wide variety of high-quality event rental equipment – everything from the place setting on the table to the dance floor and tent.

Reach out to us today, and we’ll make your dream wedding day a reality!

Outdoor marquee wedding tent

How To Select The Correct Size Tent For Your Wedding

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Preparing for a luxury wedding can be an overwhelming experience – between finding the perfect venue, selecting vendors, and choosing the right décor, it’s easy to become bogged down in details.

One of the most critical decisions for your special day is selecting the correct size tent for your wedding ceremony and reception. Finding the right-sized tent will ensure all your guests are comfortable and the area looks beautiful. Here’s what you need to know:

Why Should You Consider A Luxury Wedding Tent?

First, ask yourself if a tent is necessary for your wedding. If your wedding is entirely indoors, you may not need a tent. However, renting a tent is essential if you’re hosting an outdoor wedding.

A tent offers your guests and yourself the perfect place to escape from unexpected weather. Nobody wants to see their expensive and chic attire destroyed by rain. Sure, umbrellas and ponchos are a great backup, but there’s something special about having a covered area for your wedding.

“A luxury tent can also make a common outdoor space extraordinary. Whether in the middle of a field or your backyard, you can create a magical setting for your special day with the right tent.”

Long marquee wedding tent

How To Select The Correct Size Tent For Your Wedding

The size is the most important factor in selecting the right tent for your wedding. You’ll want a large enough tent to fit all your guests and décor but not so big that it looks empty. You’ll have to take a few steps to calculate the correct size.

Venue Size

Before you search for a tent, you’ll have to measure the size of your venue. You’ll need to know exactly how much space you have to pick an appropriately sized tent. For instance, a backyard wedding may have less space than one at a public park.

Not all of it will be used when calculating the venue’s size. You’ll have to factor in any trees, poles, and other obstacles that could get in the way of your tent setup.

Plus, it would be best if you accounted for the entrance and exit areas, where your guests will enter and exit the tent. Work with your venue’s event manager- there is a strong likelihood they will know the maximum tent size the venue is able to accommodate.

Number Of Guests

Sailcloth wedding tent in a field

Your guest list should be finalized before you rent a tent. That way, you’ll have an accurate count of how many people you need to accommodate at your wedding. You should also consider how much space each of your guests will need.

“An average person needs approximately 6-10 square feet to stand in the tent comfortably, but you can adjust the number based on your situation.”

Different Types Of Tents

Large white wedding tent

Once you know the venue size and your guest count, it’s time to search for a tent. You’ll likely find different types of wedding tents. First, let’s look at frame tents and pole tents.

Frame tents have metal frames that hold the tent, whereas pole tents use center poles and guy ropes to stay erect. The main difference between these tents is that frame tents are more versatile. You don’t need to stake them into the ground, so they can be placed on various surfaces.

“However, many people like the look of pole tents, as they drape like a canopy. Plus, the center poles provide decorations for your event.”

There is also the choice between square and rectangular tents. This choice is purely aesthetic, with the only difference being the shape of your tent.

Wedding tent layout

Inside Layout

You’ll have to consider how the inside of your tent will be laid out. Your guests will likely sit at tables for dinner, so you should account for the space these tables will take up. The wedding party’s table will probably be bigger than the regular tables, so consider that too.

“Sketching the layout of your tent is a great way to visualize where everything will go. You can also use tape to create a mockup of the tent and ensure it fits within your venue.”

We’ll review the main things to account for in the inside layout below.

Weather Conditions

Also, consider the weather conditions when picking a tent size. If you’re expecting extreme heat in the summer, you’ll want a bigger tent with more air circulation. On the other hand, if there are strong winds in your area, you should consider staking the tent down for stability.

Do Some Math

The best way to ensure that you pick the right size tent for your wedding is to do some simple math. We recommend using square footage as the unit of measurement in your calculations. For example, if your dance floor is 15 feet by 15 feet, you can multiply the two measurements to get 225 square feet.

Repeat the steps above for all the areas inside your tent, including the dance floor, buffet tables, guest seating area, etc. Once you have a list of square footage measurements, add them to get your total amount of space needed.

Common Tent Sizes You’ll Find

Wedding tent set up on a lawn

Now that you have the total square footage needed for your tent, you can start looking for a model that fits your specifications. Here are some of the most common sizes:

  • 20′ x 20′ (400 sq. ft.)
  • 20′ x 30′ (600 sq. ft.)
  • 20′ x 40′ (800 sq. ft.)
  • 30′ x 30′ (900 sq. ft.)
  • 30′ x 40′ (1200 sq. ft.)
  • 30′ x 50′ (1500 sq. ft.)
  • 40′ x 100′ (4000 sq. ft.)
  • 80′ x 80′ (6400 sq. ft.)

And so on. We always recommend getting a tent at least 10% bigger than your total square footage measurement, as this will give you more flexibility in setting up the inside of your tent. You don’t want to jam all of your furniture in an overcrowded space!

What Else Do You Need To Account For?

Now that you know how to select the correct size tent for your wedding, it’s time to start shopping! A tent is great, but it will only be a luxury wedding with the right decorations and furniture.

For a luxury wedding, you’ll likely need to rent:

Walls & Flooring

“For a truly luxurious look, you’ll want to ensure your tent looks like a room from the inside. You can do this by adding walls and flooring.”

The best way to create walls is with drapery or fabric backdrops. These come in many shapes and sizes, so be sure to pick one that will fit inside your tent perfectly. Different fabrics create different looks, so you can go for a modern or classic feel.

As for flooring, you don’t want your guest standing in grass or dirt. Instead, lay down an artificial flooring material. It will make the inside of the tent look more polished and luxurious. Remember that most ladies wear high heels, so make sure the flooring is hard enough to support them!

Elegant open air white marquee wedding tent

Bar

“A small portion of your tent layout should be dedicated to the bar area. This section should be big enough to serve your guests but not too big that it becomes an eyesore.”

When it comes to the bar itself, you want something stylish yet functional. You can go for a traditional wooden or metal one or find something more modern and unique.

Wedding bar in a sailcloth tent

There should be enough space around the bar for guests to mingle and keep their drinks. Bar stools are a great addition, as this will provide seating for those who only want to stand part of the time. However, they will require extra space, so think about that when planning your tent layout.

Stage

Optionally, you should also construct a stage. The multi-purpose stage can be used for speeches, performances, and other entertainment.

Dancefloor

Dancing is a must at any wedding, so you’ll need to make room for the dance floor. We recommend having the dance floor in an open area of your tent layout, as this will make it more visible and inviting. If you decide to not floor the entire tent, you should at least get a dance floor so there is a designated space for dancing!

“While it’s unlikely every guest will get up and dance simultaneously, you should still plan for enough space to accommodate many dancers.”

Lighting

Since you’ll be outdoors, you can’t depend on the same kind of lights you’d use in a regular room. Instead, you’ll need to invest in special lighting for the tent.

“You can choose something classic like string lights or lanterns, or mix up your décor with modern LED lights and colorful spotlights.”

Elegant wedding tent lighting

Whichever option you choose should be bright enough to light up the entire area. You can have dimmers or switches that allow different lighting settings, like a dim glow for dinner and brighter lights for dancing.

Tables & Chairs

Beautiful white wedding marquee tent

“Of course, most of your tent space will be dedicated to tables and chairs.”

For a luxury wedding, you can opt for special table settings like long banquet tables or round tables with cloth tablecloths.

As for the chairs, again, you’ll want something stylish yet comfortable. Curated Events has many chairs in various colors and styles to match your theme. You’ll find all the various table sizes with Curated Events, making it easy to include them in your calculations.

Air Conditioning/Heating

Finally, make sure your tent is comfortable. Depending on the season and location, that might mean adding air conditioning or heating units. Make sure that these are running before guests arrive so that everyone is cool/warm enough for the duration of the wedding!

“Standing units are the most common, but you can opt for air ducts and ceiling units.”

Where To Find A Tent Rental?

At Curated Events, we pride ourselves on providing the best luxury tents for any wedding. Our professional team will work closely with you to ensure that your tent is perfect for your special day! We have a wide selection of sizes and styles, so there’s something for everyone.

We also have everything you need inside the tent, such as tables, chairs, lighting, and air conditioning/heating units. We strive to ensure that all of our tents are comfortable and stylish to give your wedding a luxurious feel.

Contact us today to learn more about our tent rental services!

FAQs

1. How big a tent do you need for a 100-person wedding?

For a 100-person wedding, you’ll need a 20′ x 40′ foot tent for a cocktail-style reception or a 30′ x 45′ foot tent for a more traditional sit-down dinner.

2. What size tent do you need for 200 people at a wedding?

Once again, the size of your tent will depend on your reception style. Anything from 30′ x 60′ to 60′ x 60′ should be sufficient for a 200-person wedding.